Wanting What’s Best

By Sarah W. Jaffe

Wanting What's Best book cover
Added September 13, 2022

When privileged parents say that they "want what's best" for their child, they don't consciously add "and not for other children." Yet the practical effect of parents with privilege relentlessly pursuing their own child's interests is that other children are left behind. Author Sarah Jaffee interviewed dozens of parents who are resisting the cultural pressures to seek "the best" for only their kids, and to think about how to navigate some of the major decisions that parents make--about childcare, schools, how they use their time and money in the present, and the legacy they hope to leave their kids--that may not feel like political decisions, but either contribute to a system where only a few can thrive, or take a small step toward dismantling it. Our children are watching and learning from how we make choices. How we treat the people who care for them tells them how they should behave as a boss. Where we send them to school teaches them about their place in the world. How we spend our time and money sends them more powerful messages about how to spend theirs than any lecture about the importance of giving back or gratitude ever could. What does it look like to fight for other people's children as if the future of your own child depended on it? What choices would you need to make?

Find Book in Print Find as AudioBook